Karen was so right about this book
(see her 6/4 post)! But I need to talk about Esther, too; and Ceely, her
daughter. As one who has been Ceely and is approaching Esther, the story really
grabbed me. Ceely appears bossy, overbearing, and often angry or impatient with
her mother; especially about moving into a senior facility (which Esther calls
Bingoville!). Esther fiercely defends her independence to the point of denying
any diminution mentally or physically. This scenario is playing over kitchen
tables in millions of households today and with more to come as more Boomers
join the Esther dynamic.
Ceely is afraid for her mother’s
safety both at home and on the street; Esther is afraid of becoming invisible -
one more warehoused body in ‘Bingoville;’ and this is driving them apart. Esther’s evolution to a more sympathetic
understanding of Ceely’s motivations, her granddaughter’s world, and her own
past with her late husband moves the story along without becoming saccharine.
She remains her feisty self even as she realizes her body, her mind, and her
world will continue to change in ways she wouldn't wish despite her.
Being Esther is not great
literature, but it is a good story with sympathetic characters whose stories
are told with humor and understanding.
CAS
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